How you fuck is how you live
What does your sexual expression and intimate relationships reveal about the embodied masculinity + confident power you have in other areas of your life?
It's all related.
Intimacy Exploration for MEN
YOU DESIRE :
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Confidence in your unique masculine essence & expression, proudly being the man you know you are and can become
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Mastery of your sexual energy & potency and skill in control, pleasure & erotic presence
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Nourishing relationships with women that feed your soul, heal your heart and ignite mutual desire
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A Goddess Queen Lover who really sees, knows, understands, and respects ALL of who you are as her King
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A longterm marriage that never loses (or regains) novelty, unity, passion, depth and growth
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A devoted partnership where you feel appreciated, respected, desired, trusted and free in yourself
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The capacity to really let someone in and live love as sustainable & healing
YET YOU ARE EXPERIENCING :
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Insecurity engaging with women or uncertainty of where & how to meet someone you really match with
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Persistent doubts of your self esteem, Swiss cheese understanding of sex, women & relationships, and are gun shy from past dysfunctional or toxic connections
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Lack of stamina, fear of not performing or pleasing, and anxiety about what you think she needs or expects in bed
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A sexless marriage with a woman who won’t let go of the past, is angry & emasculating, and whom you can’t seem to make happy no matter how hard you try
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Worries that because you never saw a healthy intimate relationship modeled to you growing up, you don’t know how or won’t be able to be in one yourself
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Fear that you aren’t enough, she’s not enough, and paralyzation about how to achieve & receive what you most want
Intimacy that attracts the hottest sex and most healing relationships requires the most vulnerable excavation of your deepest truth. The truth about your desires, your fears, your insecurities, your needs, and your personal path & mission.
I’m the place to practice radical truth-telling about the hardest and most taboo topics to talk about openly without shame or judgment, with anyone, especially for most men…sex, love and intimacy.
I utilize expertise of men’s hearts from three years working tantrically as an Intimacy Surrogate, infused with 20+ years accumulative experience and training in non-monogamy, Tantra & Sacred Sexuality, various models & techniques of energy medicine, meditation & shamanism, birth & soul doula, psychotherapy & Buddhist psychology, attachment theory, and trauma-informed relational trauma therapy.
HOW YOU FUCK IS HOW YOU LIVE
I help you find greater confidence, passion and freedom in both!
Client Love
"A few months ago I was in the middle of a complicated divorce and had recently found out that the woman who I had been having some intimacy with was seeing other men without my knowledge. I was crushed, and ashamed (still haven’t told many people), I had this idea of contacting a tantric coach because a woman I know had chosen that as her new work. I needed help!
As we began our journey we explored why I was attracted to certain types of women and how the patterns were so deeply seated in my childhood, what I had learned from my parents how to relate in the world and how to step back acknowledge what affect that had on my life and my relationships. I was able to look at what I had let happen to me, being a pleaser, deflecting the adoration people showed me and ignoring my needs of love, affection and sexual satisfaction. It would have been easy to be a victim, but I wasn’t prone to that and you never would have let me, so we worked through so many patterns and levels of held trauma."
"Through some guided discussions and some rituals I have been able to largely reframe my outlook and have been able to understand my various relationships in a new way. Being much more open to attention that is given to me and more able to relate to people everyday. Understanding my relationship needs and sensual/sexual type has made it pretty clear that I am looking for a queen, and that might take some time but will be worth the wait. In the mean time I plan to work hard at enjoying all aspects of my life and continuing to learn about myself, questioning and seeking to understand my patterns.
My divorce is finalized and I have a whole new set of opportunities to explore (I got a house in the settlement) and a bunch of work to get there, but I am finally in control of my situation and it feels great. Thank You so much for your help along this journey."
~ Adam
"This is a complete out of body experience where you have the opportunity to reflect on yourself, your life, your purpose, and she will teach you how to take ack the masculine side of yourself that has been missing for however long."
Let’s Work Together
500 Terry Francine Street
San Francisco, CA 94158
The Virtual Intimate
There is a deeper source of your sexual insecurity. There is a reason you struggle getting your needs met or being 100% authentic in your relationships.
How you fuck is how you live!
Sex is a microcosm of how intimately knowing and accepting you are of yourself. It reveals what you believe about love, belonging and worthiness. And as the seed of your life force, if your intimate life is out of alignment, nothing else in your life will be able to flow in it’s full potential.
I help you put the pieces together - the psychological to the emotional, the energetics to the physical, with an anchor in the holy - so you can be free in how you love, live and fuck.
For your desired engagement length, I am in your back pocket as your life coach, sex educator, therapeutic healer, muse, friend, dating guide, relationship mentor, and soul doula.
THE VIRTUAL INTIMATE is a private container where you can safely explore topics hard to share in any other environment and receive my intuitive insights that will catapult you into being the man you know you are and the sex life you dream of.
Intimacy Healing sessions included in One Month engagements release trauma, disappointment, shame, betrayal, rage and anxiety that you carry with women.
Sensual Energetic sessions included with One Month engagements are a shared intimate online journey to expand your capacity for sexual energy in your sex & relational nervous system.
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(This is only a SAMPLE JOURNEY. Ours will be created together)
Week 1
DECODING MASCULINITY
This week we explore what masculinity & confidence in your masculine power means to you.
You’ve inherited a lot of programming about what it means to “be a man”. You’ve no doubt experienced emasculation from women and lost sense of yourself trying to please a partner. There may be confusion of what a healthy dynamic with women looks & feels like in context to your masculinity.
Organically our conversations this week will unearth some core reasons why you feel disconnected from your full confident masculine potential, decoding how you learned to be the man you are.
Week 2
RELEASING THE PAST
This week we open to what you’re ready to let go of so that you can be the man you know you really are and have the life & love that makes you feel free & alive.
Whatever you haven’t healed or learned from every relationship you’ve ever had with any pivotal woman in your life, and the men who exampled intimacy to you, will infect all future connections.
Sex is a microcosm of what we believe about love, belonging and worthiness so this week will highlight the links between the confidence in your masculinity, distrust of the feminine, and insecurities in your sex.
Week 3
DANCING WITH THE FEMININE
This week we decode the mysterious feminine and build your confidence to assert leadership in bed & in life.
Learn the energetic & sensual language of the feminine, her invisible tripwires, how to connect to her effortlessly and invoke her sexuality with your presence.
Week 4
MASTERING YOUR SEXUAL POWER
Your self understanding, confidence and clarity is growing and now it’s time to see it THROUGH the body.
Learn how to tantrically hold more sexual energy in your body without overwhelm. Your cock is the physical embodiment of your inner masculine power. This week we infuse a new wielding of both.
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4 weeks
2 x 60min Zoom Connection sessions
1 x 60 min Sensual Healing session
1 x 60min Erotic Energy session
Unlimited access via Voxer to go really deep
$1111
1 week teaser - $333
4 weeks Voxer only - $600