Sacred Lovers
Find you way back to yourself
to them
to the holy fuck that brought you together
There is a reason you two came together.
It was more than attraction.
It was more than chemistry.
And while you may think you chose your partner based on a heart that knows love and your compatibility on fundamental values & life goals,
The reality is you came together to be a holy portal of healing for each other.
And for yourself.
Your partner is the path home to yourself
All of our unmet needs and wounds of acceptance, belonging, and love did not happen within a bubble of ourselves.
Our hidden wounds and distorted views of self are a product of experiences we've had in our most intimate relationships, perhaps deliberate and most often unintentional.
"Trauma happens in relationships, so it can only be healed in relationships."
- Alanis Morissette
So while we MUST be responsible for our own development & heal our deepest intimacy fears & hurts, the only way to complete the healing is IN relationship.
I believe every person we meet along the way has a piece of us to deliver back home, and that romantic partners are the most powerful mirrors of our relationship to ourselves.
Your partner is a reflection of what you unconsciously believe about love, unconditional acceptance, belonging & worthiness.
In self protection, especially after months or years of accumulated discontent, we often focus on where our partner isn’t measuring up or meeting our needs.
When you can see your partner as a messenger of something within you that seeks greater wholeness, clarity of values & needs, and authentic expression, and you stand loyal to be that for our partner so they can live a fully turned-on, free life…
You become SACRED LOVERS
Traveling down the central channel where divinity meets flesh,
you’ll reconnect to the holy prescription of your partnership
and root it in intimate truth & healing love.
For the Love of God
Crown
Remember that your partner & the love that bonds you is a holy gift in service to your wholeness & theirs. They are your teacher, your mirror, the antagonist waking you up to a sacred love within that is secure & fully expressed. And you are theirs. It is not coincidence or luck that brought you together but a soul agreement to walk each other home.
Third Eye
Seeing All
Excavate programmed and often hidden or disguised ideas, theories, beliefs, expectations, insecurities and fears about love, partnership, sex, men/women and your partner that you’ve inherited from your parents, culture, media, religion, and collected experiences that easily distract you from seeing, hearing, understanding and really knowing your partner. Whew, it’s a lot!
Throat
Bonding for Trauma
Even if you come from a secure upbringing, we ALL carry unmet needs from childhood. Your partner is either a repeating match of those unmet needs or so opposite to what you know of love that it’s still hard to let in. Understanding your relational nervous system & that of your partner allows you to widen your perspective & response to triggers within yourself & them.
Recalibrating to Love
Heart
Partnership is a dance and polarity is not static. Remagnetizing your interpersonal energy dynamics requires an honest look at how well you dance together, read each other, guide & follow, are moved by love, and how you feed each other through subtle energetics & behaviors. How can you take responsibility for & play with what you can invoke in your partner?
Devotional Power
Navel
It is a warrior of the heart that devotes to conscious love as the strongest healing force in existence and commits to it for & with their beloved. Intimacy is an invitation to expose naked truth. Your partnership has been stripped down so you can redefine intimacy, love & passion with new eyes and hearts recalibrated to devotional love.
Sacral
Sex Magic
From the purity of innocence & devotional trust your sexual fire will burn anew, with yourself & in erotic union. Rewrite the language of your lovemaking to one you both can speak. Create safety while also amplifying pleasure through energetics & sensuality. Sex gets to be fun, free, ecstatic and healing again. Desire can be as effortless as space when sacred love bonds you.
Love’s Soil
Root
Your partnership is grounded in reality, free from illusions & lenses that keep you from seeing clearly. You understand your partner’s needs in a way that doesn’t compromise your own. Surety & novelty coexist, fanning the flames of desire. Devotion to a deeper purpose for your union has guided you back to the holy fuck that brought you together. You have truly chosen all of them with all of you. You are home.
Sacred Lovers
Month 1
One + Contradistinctive
Unravel misconceptions of unity that prevent surrender into the “We”. Free each other from misunderstandings of your fundamental differences. Co-create a new trusted container of intimate truth.
Month 2
United in trauma
Understand your relational nervous system. Impersonally receive your partner’s history + needs. Honor triggers + challenges as a sacred mission of personal liberation through relationship.
Month 3
Recalibrating Love
Equalize, magnetize + polarize your energetics. Reharmonize attraction, chemistry + compatibility. Avoid polarity sabotage + recalibrate to the sacredness of inter-connectedness.
Month 4
Devotion
Devote unselfish love to each other’s freedom from pain + limitation. Return to the innocence of intimacy. Redefine love, pleasure, erotic freedom + divine union for you.
Month 5
The Energy of Sex
Reignite your fire with the energetics of lovemaking + surrendered sensual connection. Understand erotic nervous system needs. Reinvent sex as playful, light, effortless, healing, fun + free.
A 5 Month Journey to Sacred Love + Intimate Passion
$1111/month or $5k pay in full
Each month you’ll receive:
♥️ (2) 90 min COUPLE sessions
♥️ (1) 60 min HER session
♥️ (1) 60 min HIS session
♥️ Weekly Sensual Assignments for Her
♥️ Weekly Mission Assignments for Him
♥️ Monthly Intimacy Date Assignment for Couple
♥️ Unlimited Voxer support in between sessions through three distinct portals to fully hold this space for your partnership: For Her, For Him, For Couple
♥️ And so much more that will be intuitively created or offered
“People think that intimacy is about sex.
But intimacy is about truth.
When you realize you can tell someone your truth, when you can show yourself to them, when you stand in front of them bare and their response is ‘you’re safe with me’ - THAT’S INTIMACY.
- Taylor Jenkins Reid
Shauna ShaktiMa
My couples offerings marriage 13 years dedicated to serving women as a birth doula, soul doula life coach, women’s wisdom circle leader, and retreat maven for the sacred feminine reconnection of the womb’s sensual wisdom & throat’s sovereign truth through music, movement & shamanic medicines…and
Three years in devotion to the masculine experiencing the healing balm of vulnerable intimacy, understanding feminine sexuality and the energetics & sensuality she unfurls in, and bolstering confidence in their good hearts through sensual presence & unconditional acceptance as an Intimacy Surrogate.
My intention is to doula couples through a deeper understanding of their relating dynamics, excavate subconscious blocks or resistances of full surrender to their partner mind/body/soul, and ignite a new realm of freedom in intimacy & possibilities for their partnership.
I’ve dedicated the last 20 years to the healing arts, after fleeing a cult religion left deep, layered emotional & relating wounds to heal, self-esteem to build, and sexual insecurity to reprogram. In 2017 a Tao Tantric Arts initiation motivated a desire to help men master the art of lovemaking, couples brave deeper intimacy, and women wield the healing force of their feminine sensuality.